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Martha and Mary

I recently got a harsh letter from a Baptist lady protesting that she could not find the word "Catholic" anywhere in the Bible.

True, the earliest occurrence of the term is in a letter of St. Ignatius of Antioch, written 20 years after the last book of the New Testament.  But the idea that the Church is "catholic" pops up everywhere in the gospels and epistles.  The Greek word "catholic" comes from the word for "wholeness" or "fullness."  The "catholic" church is not just a regional sect for an exclusive little group.  Rather it must include the whole family of God over the whole world, welcoming all, from every tribe, tongue, people, and nation (Rev 7:9).  In addition, the "catholic" church cannot pick and choose which doctrines are trendy and convenient, but must be faithful to the whole truth.  Paul points out that the essence of his apostolic call was to be a "catholic" teacher: "I became a minister of this church through the commission God gave me to preach among you his word in its fullness . . . we admonish all men and teach them in the full measure of wisdom, hoping to make every man complete in Christ" (Col 1:25, 28, NAB).

One day, the fullness of life and truth came walking into the living room of a pair of sisters named Martha and Mary.  They immediately recognized the privilege of having Jesus in their home and set to work fulfilling the sacred duty of hospitality.

The problem was, they had conflicting ideas of what that duty entailed.  Martha's response is very recognizable, especially by those familiar with Mediterranean culture.  "Bring out the coffee, the wine (what kind do you prefer?), make sure the china and silverware are laid out in proper order, get out a full assortment of hot and cold hors d'oeurves (make sure the hot are really served hot)."

Mary thought that the supreme compliment that she could pay to her divine guest, even more than world-class refreshments, was to give him her full attention.  The fullness of truth had come to her home to nourish, enlighten, and transform her.  Not to receive and unwrap this wonderful gift would be an insult to the giver.

 Martha's mistake was not that she attended to the guest's bodily needs.  The story of Martha and Mary is not an endorsement of laziness and passivity.  In Gen 18:1-10 God visits Abraham in the form of three travelers, and Abraham and Sara pull out all the stops when it comes to food and drink, and this was good.

Martha's problem was that she allowed the activity of hospitality to become a distraction.  She couldn't see the forest for the trees.  She lost her focus and actually got mad that her sister would not join her in her frenetic fussing.

Mary kept her focus.  She was not passive — attentiveness to the fullness of truth is supremely active.  That's why the contemplative, monastic life has always been held in the highest esteem in the Catholic Church.

I was once told by a monk that the greatest sin of the modern world is not its lewdness but its busyness.  We live in the most distracted, frenetic society of all time.  It is tempting in such a society to think we are good Christians and deserve applause because we look at God from time to time out of the corners of our eyes.

But the fullness of truth, the fullness of life, the fullness of grace deserves our full attention.  Jesus really cannot be merely a part of one's life, but must be the center of one's life.  It does not mean that our lives can't be full of activities.  But unless we preserve some quiet time each day to sit at His feet as did Mary, our action will become distraction and we'll be as snappy and unhappy as Martha.

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    Thank you, Marcellino. I am reading this even as I multi-task. Cool

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    Wonderful answer about "catholic" being the Bible.  Where was this logic when I was debating "catholic and the Bible" to a "Fundamentalist Full Gospel Holiness Charismatic Evangelizing Baptist" a few weeks back.

     

    I know I got carried away on describing one of our protestant brothers.  Sometimes I get a little tickled about how they name their facilities.

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    I actually call them cousins and not brothers because while acknowleging the Father, they're ashamed of our Mother. Anyway, with all the theological discriptions that they could muster, they could just say Catholic but I know that could be the hardest word to spell.

    Goral

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    Am I the only hostess who wants to be with her guests and therefore willingly accepts any help in the serving?

    Did not Jesus come to their house in Bethany frequently?  So can't you imagine Martha's wanting to be at Jesus' side just as Mary was?

    St. Martha, proclaimer of Jesus as the Messiah, pray for us.

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    More on Mary and Martha by Origen here…

    http://romancatholicinfo.com/catholic-faith/mary-martha/

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    I love Martha and Mary and will share some thoughts.

    I am probably reading this incorrectly, but it does not seem to me that Jesus is reprimanding Martha in this Gospel; He is comforting her. Look at how He speaks to her–He calls her name, and twice too. When people speak to us, we are drawn to what they are saying when they say our name; it is so much more personal. Christ was drawing Martha to Him when He spoke, comforting her, and, as Dr. D'Ambrosio points out, helping her focus on Him. He also reads her heart and shows her that He understands her troubles when He says, "You are troubled by many things."

    Let us look more at Mary. Now I know there is controversy surrounding this Mary, such as, was she Mary Magdalene, and was she a prostitute? I do not know. But I do know that no woman (with original sin) would even be at the foot of the Cross, loving Christ's every bruise and lash, without having been previously at His precious feet bathing them with her tears and letting Him heal her heart. It is precisely through her tears of sorrow and her abandonment of self for the sake of the Beloved that she is free enough to not only be healed, but to be invited to the Cross. It is only in our brokenness that we can come to love Christ's. He was asking her to love Him on the Cross and beyond.

    Martha and Mary's lives of service are not opposed to each other; the difference is in how they love, but the key is that they both love the same Lord. Martha loves Christ in her deeds and daily crosses; Mary wants to know and love Him in His every joy and torment, at the foot of the Cross and beyond. These women are not a contradiction, but a beautiful marriage of the human heart; they are the key to being "in the world" but not "of it."

    So, in a way, in whatever vocation we choose, we are called to perform "the tasks of Martha" but to have the "longings of Mary." The "tasks of Martha" (our duties in the world) must be done with love for Martha's Lord, but as Mary, we must never be content with the world, but ever long to be united with Christ in Paradise, no matter the cost.

     

     

     

     

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