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Living in God’s Perfect Will: Dependence on God and Budgeting, Part Two

In Part One of this series I explained how I feel that we can build our faith and better attune our lives to God's will through the proper use of money.

The Mechanics of Developing and Living on a Budget

When you budget, take an annual, not a monthly approach. Start with the big necessities and work your way down to the small wants. I recommend that you begin the process with earnest prayer. If you seem to have an impossible situation, consider fasting before you sit down to prepare your budget.

Once you have all your expenses roughed out for the year, mark those that are not incurred regularly each month. Things in this category are usually items like semi-annual insurance premiums, car repairs and maintenance, major holidays and birthdays, vacations, etc. To make sure that you don't overlook something it is a good idea to skim through your checkbook and credit card statements so you see a full year's spending activity. Be sure to budget for "unexpected repairs." Leave an allowance in the budget for repairing each vehicle and major appliance you own unless covered by a warranty over the year you are budgeting.

Now calculate your annual gross income. Multiply it by 10% and you have your tithe amount and savings amount. This savings is only for major things like weddings, funerals, down payments on houses, etc. — "rainy day money." If you are saving for something special, create a special "budget account" for that item.

Next, calculate your estimated net cash income (net check) and subtract the tithe and savings amount. This remainder should be the amount you live on; the means within which you live.

Finally, convert your annual expenditures to monthly allowances by dividing by 12.

If you are normal, your annual projected expenses exceed your annual cash income. It is at this time you seek God's wisdom (that you prayed for in the first step above) in helping you decide what to cut, what to trim and what to leave in your spending budget. Remember to employ the heart of a servant but be real. Continually revise your spending budget until it can be managed within the constraints of your income. Try to leave a 5% "cushion" between cash income and cash spending for contingencies. You may not be able to change to this system over night; it may take a few years of working toward it. For my wife and I, it was always our goal to get "there". As long as we kept getting closer to the ideal situation, we felt we were growing.    

If you find yourself in an impossible situation, a major change in lifestyle may be in order. This is when it is most important to pray and await the Lord's guidance. Be not afraid! You are placing control of your situation in the hands of  God. Trust Him with your situation and don't be afraid to make changes. You will experience great peace; that will be the sign that you are following God's will.

Living Within Your Budget

I recommend the following procedures to facilitate living this way:

            1)  Cash Envelopes:

For areas of the budget that are most conveniently paid with cash (see examples below), put the budgeted monthly amount of cash in separate envelopes and keep them in a safe place. It is also a good idea sometimes to make cash envelopes for categories which you are likely to overspend — which will implement forced budgeting. When the envelope is empty, you spend no more until the following month.

In addition, use cash envelopes for categories you are likely to spend when you have children with you so that they have the opportunity to see how cash is spent and what things cost. This will help them greatly later in life. Too many children see their parents use a card every time they buy something, so they grow up without knowing that it really takes money to buy stuff. This teaching opportunity is far more valuable than the miles or points you lose by using cash instead of your "mileage plus" credit card.

Examples of envelope accounts in a family budget: clothes, dry cleaning, hair care, pharmacy and medical, entertainment, gifts, home repairs, food, eating out.

            2)  Credit Card Expenditures:

 Most people carry a credit card for safety reasons. My recommendation is, each time you make a credit card purchase, write a check to the credit card company or, if spent out of a "cash envelope category," remove the cash from the envelope and place it (and the checks) in an envelope with the credit card name on it. This will prevent a very common budgeting error — spending a finite amount of money in the budget multiple times. When the credit card bill comes, the money to pay off current charges in full should be in the envelope with the credit card's name on it!

            3)  Non-Regular Expenditures:

It is critical that, each month, you send the appropriate amount of cash in the form of a check or electronic transfer to a savings account for the budgeted amount of non-regular expenses.

                For example:  Auto Insurance

                Annual Premium                              $1,200

                Payable Semi Annually                        $600

                Monthly Budget                                 $100

In this example, you would deposit $100 into the savings "budget account" over and above the 10% monthly "rainy day" amount each month between premium billings. Use this same approach for things like car repairs that you can predict annually but come up only periodically.

By using this method, you set aside adequate funds each month to pay expenses timely without creating a cash crisis in the month the premium is due. Use this method for all expenses that cycle other than monthly. This will keep you within your means on a monthly basis.

Keeping Track of Savings

Using this system you will have money in savings under many different categories. I recommend maintaining a spreadsheet with a column for each category in savings. Yes, it seems like lots of detail… but it works, relieves stress and frees your attention up to pursue greater things.

Ongoing Discipline

It is a really bad idea to take unspent money in a budget category and spend it on something else. (I'm not talking about an occasional $5 reallocation here). A really good discipline is to add the money you didn't spend each month and put it into savings. Example: You allocate $100 per month for your electric bill. In the winter, the bill is under $100 and in the summer it is greater than $100.  Each month, calculate the amount by which your actual expenses are above or below your budgeted amount. Transfer any unspent money to savings.  When you are short of the monthly bill, the money you need should be in savings.

Major Purchases

I consider a major purchase something that costs 1% or more of your gross monthly income. For example, a household that earns $4500 per month: $4500 x .01= $45.  So in this example, whenever a purchase of $45 or more comes up it should be taken seriously. If it is something you "want" but don't need, discuss it with your spouse, lift it up to God in your daily prayer time and wait 24 hours. Often due to advertising pressure, perceived savings, etc., a purchase seems like a "no brainer" today, but 24 hours later it may not present the same level of urgency.

However, if the major purchase is already in the budget, go ahead. Example: you have saved $300 in the clothes budget either in an envelope or in savings and you go to a sale or on a special shopping trip — go for it — you already prepared for this purchase. Spend up to $300 and enjoy it!

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    I would refine item #2 on credit cards by suggesting that people not have credit cards at all.  You can get a Visa or MC debit card.  This will limit you to spending only what you have in your account.  Statistics show that people will spend up to 17% more on a transaction using a credit card vs. cash.  For that reason putting yourself on the envelope system and using cash for as many transactions as possible will help you further limit your spending.  There's a pain response to parting with cash that is less evident with debit card spending and non-existent with credit card spending.

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    I strongly advise against debit cards because there is such a great risk of fraud and identity theft for debit cards than there is for credit cards. If someone steals your debit card number and spends money, that money is GONE from your account, whereas with a credit card, you can dispute that fraudulent activity and never be liable for it, even during the dispute period.

    I have zero debit cards and three credit cards, I have never paid a penny of interest on my credit cards, and I have paid off my credit cards in full every single month for as long as I have had them. I really isn’t that hard to do, all it takes is common sense to not spend more than you can pay off.

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    Thank you for these excellent suggestions and for the reminder that our pocketbooks belong to God along with everything else.  As my oldest is in his second year at college it is almost frightening how credit card companies send him cards to open.  We easily shred three a week.  Our children need to know how to be wise on all these financial matters, just as we do.  When you consider how easy it is for adults to succumb to the secular temptation of "goods," imagine the draw on our kids.

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    I've seen lots of recommendations when it comes to tithing. Some say 10% off the top. Others say 10% off of what you actually get to keep after the government takes its share.  Still others suggest 10% of what you actually have left over after meeting basic living expenses. Others question the 10% number on various grounds. What is perfectly clear is that the Church does not mandate 10%. Nor does the Church mandate that tithing be given exclusively to external groups.

    Let me explain. The Church mandates that the faithful participate directly in the upkeep of their parish or religious community. In this sense, the first religious community of every person is his or her family. Charity must begin at home, in the family. And due consideration must be granted to different families in different states. Just as those who earn more have an obligation to give a correspondingly larger amount than those who earn less, those whose generosity has been more fruitfully expressed within their own familial community have an obligation to ensure that proper attention is paid to the needs, in charity, of family members first. Put another way, a family with nine children (for example) has a lesser obligation to give outside the family than does a family with six children; the family with six children has a lesser obligation to give outside the family than a family with four children; and the family with four children has a lesser obligation to give outside the family than does a family with just two or one children. As children mature and leave to establish their own families, these obligations can change, and as a family opens its arms to welcome more children, they can also change.

    Similarly, a family that is struggling to pay for Catholic schooling or homeschooling (this latter is extraordinarily expensive when one considers the opportunity costs incurred by families who keep one parent at home to teach the children) has a lesser obligation to give outside the family than does a family whose children make use of the public schools.

    In like fashion, a family who is spending money for the care of an elderly or sick member has a lesser obligation to give outside the family than does a family that does not face this situation. 

    Put another way, the 10% tithing obligation is a good starting point for  considering a particular amount of giving. One's parish or religious community must be included in this giving. But you are not shirking your tithing obligation if the primary recipients of your tithe are your children or your parents or your cousin who has cancer. Indeed, in these particular situations, the amount of the tithe very often exceeds 10% by a large amount, even if the amount given to your parish and to charitable organizations does not add up to 10%.

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    Paul Polito

    I have a different take on tithing.  I do not believe that tithing was established for the church; I think the Lord established the tithe for us.  When we consider the Sermon on the Mount and the assurance that God will meet our needs, I think we have to take that seriously. 

    We began tithing when I lost my job shortly after relocating and had no income.  It was easy….an easy time to start.  The economy was in a terrible state and I knew we would blow through our savings in less than 60 days.  We had our third child on the way and were committed to having my wife stay at home with the Children.  So here I was, newly relocated in a town 100 miles from where I knew everyone and I decide to go into business for myself….in a recession.  I made the commitment to God to follow the biblical norms and tithe 10% of my gross income.  I trusted God (sometimes it was very hard to not take that trust back) to care for our family.  Miracles happened!  Customers stumbled over themselves to use my services.  Everyone else in the accounting business was suffering and I was flourishing…..and I wasn't that great!  I know that it was God.  He was (in my opinion) honoring our faith.  We have never looked back.  We have continued tithing a minimum of 10%.  For over 20 years we lived from hand to mouth.  Some years our taxes were late.  But you know what?  We regularly experienced God in our lives.  We experienced divine intervention.  I think it was because we were open to God's grace in our lives.  Every one of our five children benefitted from this greatly.  They know what a miracle is!  They know when God is operating in their lives. 

    In biblical times the Israelites had God and they had pagan gods.  They didn't have modern irrigation equipment, they needed rain.  Conventional wisdom was to sacrifice to the pagan gods. The God of Israel demanded loyalty and promised plenty…..and delivered to those who followed His will.  Today our conventional wisdom gods are security, control, saftey…..how can you experience miracles if you have so much control over your finances that you never need?  When you give 10% off the top, chances are it's going to put you in need at some point.  Try it. Don't rationalize around it.  Watch the Lord show you he is real!  Don't miss out on this wonderful opportunity!  Try tithing 10% of your gross income for 90 days and see what happens…..

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