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What Would Darwin Advise? &#0151 Loving Our Children

For the past few years, I've been telling BreakPoint readers about our culture's undeclared war on people with Down syndrome. Earlier this year, the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists recommended that all pregnant women, regardless of age, undergo amniocentesis. Obviously that's to put them under increasing pressure to abort the child if a genetic defect is detected.

I thought that I heard every possible argument for and against this barbarism, but I was wrong. Apparently, in addition to asking themselves "what would Jesus do?" women should ask themselves "what would Darwin advise?"

But Dr. Frank Boehm of Vanderbilt Medical Center has doubts about doctors' ability to "adequately counsel patients" about having a child with Down syndrome. Properly counseling patients requires painting a balanced picture of life with such a child. Boehm points out that while there are "considerable challenges… there are also many positive [aspects] as well." Boehm cites his own experience with his grandson, who has Down syndrome.

Through his grandson, Boehm has come to appreciate the often "unappreciated richness" in these children's lives. He sees how their parents feel that their child offers "love, affection, happiness, laughter and joy" as well as teaching "compassion and acceptance."

Boehm's position is a welcome addition to the debate over the treatment of children with Down syndrome. But part of Boehm's argument has me scratching my head. He ended his piece by saying that not telling patients about these "positive aspects of life" would constitute a failure to "understand the evolutionary process."

I don't get it. What does evolutionary theory have to tell us about the "positive aspects" of genetic defects? More importantly, what does it tell us about the human capacity for altruism and compassion — the very things Dr. Boehm is advocating? The answer is: Nothing.

Dr. Boehm is a classic example of muddled thinking.

Darwin insisted that natural selection would "rigidly destroy" any variation — such as Down syndrome — that would hurt its possessor "in the struggle for life." As much as we love kids with Down syndrome, it's impossible to imagine how Down syndrome helps people in "the struggle for life." Quite the contrary: it's a variation that, if Darwin were right, should have been "rigidly destroyed" a long time ago.

And clearly evolutionary theory can't explain the compassion and love that parents shower on their Down syndrome children. If evolutionary theory is right, then the time, resources and energy it takes to raise a child with special needs could be put to better uses: such as raising children who are more likely to strengthen the species.

The late philosopher David Stove, who was an atheist, called Darwinian explanations for altruism and compassion "confused" and a "slander" against man. They miss the obvious fact that man "is sharply distinguished from all other animals by being in fact hopelessly addicted to altruism."

The "addiction" that Stove talked about is not the product of evolution. It is the product of being made in the image of God.

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    I completely agree with this article.  When I was carrying my twins, I told my doctor flat out that I was not going to have an amnio, or alpha-fetal protein, or the chorionic villus sampling tests, despite the fact that I'm over 35 and even before this new advisory I would have been in the agegroup for which these tests were recommended.  Luckily, despite the fact that my doctor does prescribe contraception and refers his patients for IVF (but, praise God, he doesn't do abortions), he agreed with me wholeheartedly.

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    My sister-in-law is in physical therapy.  She can attest to the reality of the "weeding out" process on Downs babies.  She used to see many Downs children in a given week.  Now it is rare to see a child with Downs once a month, if even.

    May God have mercy on us.  We do not know what love is.  We think we do but we have no idea.  Downs kids have the beauty of us  – but they are even sweeter.  Forgive us for we know not what we do!

    GK – God is good!

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    I'm going to admit a dark secret with which I struggle:  "should I use NFP to space babies because I'm into my mid 40s"?

    I'll be 44 when this baby is born.  And my husband and I considered the increased risk for Downs Syndrome before conceiving.  I feel guilty for putting that in the equation for responsible parenthood but I did.

    I know God only provides good gifts (despite our human understanding of "good").  But, I don't wish a disabled child on myself or my family.  On the other hand, maybe that person would be the very means to the salvation of many, including me! 

    I only hope that my actions speak louder than my interior struggles…there but for the Grace of God go I.

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    I was asked by my ob/gyn if I wanted to take some of these tests (I don't remember which or for what).  I asked her, "If something is found, can anything be done to help the baby in utero?"  She said, "No." and I said, "Then what's the point spending all that money on the tests?"

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    elkabrikir,

    a holy Dominican priest once counselled 'keep your head in the clouds and your feet on the ground.'

    I also recall someone posting that in being open to life (practising NFP), we should have a 'heavy heart' when avoiding pregnancy. I understood what they meant because I realise that's how I feel. Having it expressed by another, freed me to rejoice in my 'heavy heart' because before that I didn't quite understand my 'heaviness.'

    Be confident that with the light of the Holy Spirit, you & spouse would be making the right decision, cycle by cycle, for your family.

    Our Lady, Seat of Wisdom, pray for them.

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    God loves you .

    Not just in our children, but in so much of life, Love parcels love in ways that just . are . NOT . our . ways.

    Of her shortly-to-be-published letters, Mother Teresa of Calcutta
    (Blessed and soon holy Saint be her canonized name)
    as with all of us, agonized that there are dark nights of trying to understand and live God’s ways. In pure obedience, as Mother Teresa’s persistence demonstrated, there is light.

    “Not my will, but of Thy will, so be it” is our prayer for every prayer.

    Jesus said to him [says to me, to you] “If you can! All things are possible to him who believes.”
    Immediately the father of the child cried out and said, “I believe; help my unbelief!”
    (see Mark 9: 20-29; do note that this was a desperate father of a tormented child)

    I believe, Lord – help my unbelief – from out of my weak belief, make your great gift of faith grow.

    Remember, I love you, too

    Reminding that we are all on the same side – His,

    Pristinus Sapienter

    (wljewell @catholicexchange.com or … yahoo.com)

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    I read on this blog about the flaws of the classical evolutionary theory.

    http://romancatholicinfo.com/wp-admin/post.php?action=edit&post=166

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    Claire, you can probably speak to this better than anyone else I know.  I realize I've been "out of the loop" for a LOT of years, but it was my understanding that amnio and chorionic villus sampling were more apt than not to initiate a miscarriage.  I've always thought that insistence on these tests was one (very underhanded way) the medical establishment was working toward population control.  ???

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    Hi Cooky,

       Yes, both those tests carry a miscarriage risk, one that I would never have risked in a million years (especially because obviously abortion would not have been an option for me even if those tests were positive).  I agree that these tests often serve the purpose of population control by weeding out babies who aren't perfect.  On the other hand, there are some people who opt for these tests not because they would consider abortion, but just because they feel a strong need to be prepared well in advance if there is going to be a problem.  I can respect that, although it was not a choice I would have made.  But the fact that these tests lead to so many abortions is very disturbing.  And there are also false positives. 

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    "more apt than not" — the way you say it sounds like having the test is likely to cause a miscarriage. I think the chances for a miscarriage are quite small, around 1 in a thousand. Still, unless there's something you can do to help the child, why would you even take that risk?

    (My wife just gave birth at 42. We refused amnio and cvs tests, for these reasons.)

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