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The Business of Life

Yesterday, I spent the day traveling by plane from Chicago back home to Fresno. On one of the portions of my trip, I broke out my highlighted and underlined copy of David Allen's Getting Things Done to review. Seated adjacent to me was a young executive flying on business. My book caught his eye and he commented on it, asking me my profession. "I'm a Mom," I told him, giving my standard response.

The reality of my employment status is a bit too complicated to explain, so I prefer to state my vocation when asked. In truth, I run several web sites, am employed part time by my parish, write on a freelance basis and do design projects for small businesses.

I caught his sarcastic smile when he queried why I was reading a book about personal productivity if I was "just" a stay at home mom. Rather than give a lengthy response, I told him I worked part time and that I was interested in the topic of time management.

If I had been thinking straight, I would have referred to productivity guru David Allen's latest podcast, where he refers to "winning at the game of work and the business of life".

Indeed, for our work to be successful, it is crucial that we look at our home life as a well oiled machine. If my husband does not have laundered white coats fresh and waiting, he will not be properly uniformed to carry out his work as an ER doctor. If the brakes on my car don't function properly due to lack of service, I am unable to drive to my clients' offices for consultation. If I do not eat healthfully and exercise regularly, I am not in top form to manage the multiple professional responsibilities that demand my attention each day. You get the idea.

On the final flight home, I spent time working on a list of "next actions" that need to be taken care of today. However, when I returned home, I learned of the death of one of our parishioners and the fact that his funeral is this afternoon. My list will have to wait, as I feel compelled to honor and pray in thanksgiving for this special man and his well lived life.

Regardless of whether we are stay-at-home parents or partners in a law firm, personal productity and time management are critical to our missions and vocations and have great relevance to our lives, both at work and in the home.

Sometimes, the business of life trumps the game of work.

This post is also available on my Catholic Mom Moments blog.

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     Why would anyone with half a brain not understand that managing the business of a family is very like managing a small business?  The staff with their tasks has to be scheduled, the budget has to be drawn up and adhered to, supplies have to be purchased, plant and fleet maintenance has to be done, etc.  So what if CEO is spelled MOM – the job description – in the purely physical realm – is very similar.

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    Lisa, this is great stuff!  I think that you're right on the money- a mom needs GTD as much if not more than an executive whose day is fully under his/her control, etc.

     

    Mike 

     

    Mike St. Pierre

    Life Coaching and Ministry Mentoring

    "Simple Ways to Keep Life Moving" tm

    http://www.mikestpierre.com

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    God has greatly blessed me with good health, an active mind, and a big beautiful family. And there is certainly nothing wrong with working smarter instead of harder.

    But I grow less and less impressed with productivity gurus and well-oiled machines. We are in the business of following Jesus Christ in whatever we do. That means finding God’s will and making it our will. It means giving the gift of ourselves completely to get our spouses and children to heaven. We ought not set up our family situation so as to best support our career; we ought to have a job which best supports our family life.

    That has less to do with productivity, money, and GTD than with faith, hope, and love.

    Vivat Jesu!

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