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Pregnant Students Deserve Better Than Abortion

A few months ago I happened to hear an audio recording on C-SPAN of the 1973 oral arguments before the US Supreme Court in Roe v. Wade. Attorney Sarah Weddington argued Roe, in part, on the basis that a woman could not complete her education if she were pregnant. Why not? Women are not suddenly stupid because they are pregnant.

Shortly after I began speaking on college campuses about America's rich 200-year pro-life feminist history, a Feminists for Life board member shared the story of her unplanned pregnancy and subsequent miscarriage while in graduate school. That was in 1995. I realized that I had never seen a visibly pregnant student on a college campus. Shortly thereafter, Feminists for Life discovered that college health clinics overwhelmingly refer pregnant women to abortion clinics.

Clearly, decades after Roe, women still feel forced to choose between sacrificing their education or their children. This is unacceptable.

Resources and Support

Research by the Guttmacher Institute, Planned Parenthood's research arm, documents that women of college age are at highest risk of having an abortion. Forty-five percent of women who have abortions are of college age, 18-24 years old. Women with some college had a pregnancy rate that was lower than average, but still "had the highest abortion rate of any educational group." The statistics support what pregnant and parenting students have been telling Feminists for Life for years: that they need more resources and support. Among women who had abortions, 71 percent of 18- to 19-year-olds and 58 percent of 20- to 24-year-olds said having a child would interfere with their education or career.

 Feminists for Life hosted its first Pregnancy Resource Forum at Georgetown University in 1997. Within two years of prioritizing what was most needed, Georgetown trustees set aside nearby housing for parents, started Hoyas for Kids childcare, established a 7-day-a-week hotline, and cross-trained counselors to address pregnancy resources as well as sexual assault and domestic violence. Every year Georgetown hosts another Pregnancy Resource Forum to see what improvements should be made next. Since that first forum, FFL has brought its College Outreach Program to top colleges across the country, including Harvard, Swarthmore, Berkeley, Stanford, Northwestern, University of Chicago, Loyola-Baltimore and Notre Dame, among others. We have shared solutions created at one college with the next. Every college built on the others' solutions.

University of Virginia students started a babysitting service. Pro-life students at Berkeley raised funds and placed diaper decks in men's and women's rooms all over campus to support more than 1,000 student parents enrolled there each year. Wellesley pro-life and pro-choice students recently collaborated in a rummage sale to benefit pregnant and parenting mothers.

Remarkably, the Guttmacher Institute reports that in the decade since 1994 (when Feminists for Life's College Outreach Program began), abortions among college-educated women have declined by 30 percent.

Acting on the Federal Level

Inspired by FFL's Pregnancy Resource Forums, the Elizabeth Cady Stanton Pregnant and Parenting Student Services Act was introduced into Congress in 2005.

The bill is named for the mother of the women's movement, who was also the mother of seven children. Stanton was a revolutionary who consistently advocated for the rights of women, women's education, the acceptance and celebration of motherhood, and the protection of our children — born and unborn. Elizabeth Cady Stanton would have been proud to know that she still inspires action today.

If passed, the act will establish a pilot program to provide $10 million for 200 grants to encourage institutions of higher education to establish and operate a pregnant and parenting student services office. The on-campus office would serve parenting students, student parents-to-be who are pregnant or imminently anticipating an adoption, and students who are placing or have placed a child for adoption. This would be an important step toward providing the solutions women really need.

Abortion is a reflection that we have failed women — and that women have had to settle for far less than they need and deserve.

We need to focus on systematically eliminating the root causes of abortion — as Elizabeth Cady Stanton's close friend and partner in suffragist organizing, Susan B. Anthony, urged us to do 150 years ago — not rely on abortion to cover up our failure to help women. Women deserve better than abortion.

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    No, women are not suddenly stupid. But when I was in that situation in 1972, I think my college would have probably expelled me–at least that was my fear. And getting into a good college was quite a process (still is). Being pregnant and unmarried was a stigma. And, there were no online education programs, no personal computers. Times were different. I sure wish Feminists for Life had been around then. Where they need to be is at the health clinics. That’s where I went. That’s where the decision is made. And this was even before Roe v. Wade–I begged for help and the doctor prescribed the morning after pill.

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    My heart goes out to the above commenter. She was given a grave disservice by the clinic that she went to.
    I have read that educated women are more likely to have an abortion than the un-educated. How sad that is. These days being a single mother is no longer stigamatized, so why should a visibly pregnant college student be ostracized?

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    I have never quite understood the stigma against pregnant college students. (Although I acknowlege it still exists.) If the stigma is that people know a woman had sex, well a high percentage of college students female and (Shock!) male are fornicating. The pregnant woman just got “caught”!

    Maybe the real stigma to worldly sinful people is that the “caught” woman would be stupid enough to carry a pregnancy to term and let someone weaker than she control her destiny.

    Of course this entire situation is in dire need of Christ’s healing. Sin does not need to compound sin. Therefore, just because a woman was fornicating and became pregnant does not mean that she needs to bow to human respect/stigma and selfishnes. With God’s grace she can overcome her situation.

    Feminists for Life have chosen to fight the good fight of the true feminists by meeting the real needs of fallen women, like all of us are. Women do deserve “better than abortion”. And when they get it babies will be saved.

    In the final analysis, however, each woman who choses life for her baby or death for her baby will be held accountable to the Merciful and Just Father. No amount of blame shifting–to greedy Planned Parenthood, selfish lover, campus health center, pushy mom, beckoning career, prestigious university acceptance–will heal the heart of an aborted woman.

    May Elisabeth Cady Stanton, Susan B Anthony, Mary Magdalen, and Blessed Mother Mary continue to inspire us and pray for us in this Culture of Death.

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    I know this article is speaking about college aged young women, but on a related note: I went to a public high school and it had a young mothers program that worked in conjunction with our in-house health clinic to make sure the young women were given proper pre-natal care and that their children had their immunizations and well child check-ups. The rate of graduation for young mothers in our town almost quadrupled because of this program. The number of these young women who went on to college nearly doubled because the town thought enough to give them a chance. Some of the folks in our town did not like the fact that this program existed, but it really was to help the young women and ensure that they be granted the opportunity to graduate. They were also educated on caring for their babies and seeking child care and employment, etc. Having emotional support from the town, the school, and their classmates really helped these young women thrive.

    “Abortion is a reflection that we have failed women — and that women have had to settle for far less than they need and deserve.”—this was a wonderful statement. I often make this same arguement to my brother and some of my girlfriends.

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    Abortion is a tragedy that must be overcome by compassionate learning at the base of our moral development.

    Please learn from Our Lady of America’s messages and understand how She as again asking us to follow Her Son. http://www.oltiv.org

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    When I got pregnant in my junior year of nursing school 20-some years ago, while many were supportive, including the Director of Nursing and the Teachers, some of my classmates tried to get a petition passed to prevent the school from helping me in any way…(They had been giving me meal tickets because I didn’t have enough money to eat and pay for prenatal care) I placed my child for adoption and returned to school within 2 weeks.
    Less than 6 months later, in my senior year, I became pregnant again…
    I just couldn’t go thru the trauma again… my parents had “disowned” me the first time, and my father had only just begun to tell me that he loved me again… so my classmate who was with me when I found out took me to the clinic that she had just visited…and I have had to live with this ever since… I was sure that since they hadn’t kicked me out the first time, the second pregnancy in a 3 year course would result in my being expelled…. and I couldn’t even begin to face my parents again…

    That decision has affected the rest of my life, despite counseling and healing prayer and God’s forgiveness… and I do agree, Women do deserve much better than abortion.

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    Trish,
    I’m so sorry for what you’ve been through. I can’t believe that your classmates were so mean-spirited. I hope that in time you will be able to forgive yourself, as God already has. And in the meantime, your story might prevent someone else from having an abortion. By the way, you are to be commended for placing your firt baby for adoption. You gave that baby an incredible gift. (This is coming from a woman who is an RN and also infertile and discerning adoption.)

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    I became pregnant in 1991 during my junior year in college at the age of 20. I immediately became engaged to my boyfriend and we planned to marry (we did and we now have six children and 15 years of marriage to show for the grace of having made that decision, scary though it was). I am happy to say that the state university I was attending helped me in every way possible. The instructors were told to give me incompletes for that semester and let me finish the classes as I was able; the advisors gave me preference in my choice of class times to accomodate my new life…they literally did everything they could to help me finish my degree and because of their help I did finish it! I was still mortified to walk around the campus as my belly began to show, and I took only correspondence courses during my third trimester, but I went back after my baby came and finished up. I know my situation is rare in many ways, but I do think that occasionally you find people who are very supportive and compassionate toward a young girl trying to do the right thing. I just wish there were more of those kind-hearted people to be found.

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