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Celebrating the Mother of God

The mother of the messiah has been called many things in the last 2000 years –the Virgin Mary, Our Lady, the Blessed Mother.  But call her “the Mother of God,” and you’ll see some Christians squirm.

This is nothing new.  One day in the early fifth century, a priest preached a stirring sermon in the presence of the patriarch of Constantinople.  His subject was the holy mother of Jesus.  The preacher continually referred to Mary as the “Theotokos” meaning “God-bearer” or mother of God.  This was no innovation–Christians had invoked Mary under this title for at least two hundred years.  Nevertheless, at the close of the sermon, the patriarch ascended the steps of the pulpit to correct the preacher.  We should call Mary the Mother of Christ, said Patriarch Nestorius, not the Mother of God.  She was the mother of his human nature, not the mother of his divinity.

His comment sparked a riot.  And the dispute rocked not only the congregation, but the entire empire.  Cyril, patriarch of Alexandria, Egypt, immediately recognized that Nestorius’ Marian theology was a symptom of a much deeper problem, a problem with the incarnation itself.  For to deny Mary the title “Mother of God” makes of Jesus a dichotomy, a split personality.  It would mean that God had not really embraced our humanity so as to become human.  Rather, the humanity of Christ is hermetically sealed off from the divinity, as if Jesus were two persons, as if human nature was so distasteful that God, in Christ, had to keep it at arm’s distance.  It is OK, according to Nestorius, to say that in Jesus, God raised Lazarus, or multiplied the loaves, or walked on water.  But it is not OK to say that in Jesus God is born or that God died.

Cyril, aware that this was a challenge to the heart of our faith, demanded that an ecumenical council be called to settle the matter.  So in 431, the Council of Ephesus met, under Cyril’s leadership, and solemnly proclaimed that Mary is indeed rightly to be honored as the Theotokos, the Mother of God.  It proclaimed that from the moment of his conception, God truly became man.  Of course Mary is a creature and could never be the origin of the eternal Trinity, God without beginning or end.  But the second person of the blessed Trinity chose to truly become man.  He did not just come and borrow a human body and drive it around for awhile, ascend back to heaven, and discard it like an old car.  No, at the moment of his conception in the womb of Mary, an amazing thing happened.  God the Son united himself with a human nature forever.  Humanity and divinity were so closely bound together in Jesus, son of Mary, that they could never be separated again.  Everything that would be done by the son of Mary would be the act both of God and of man.  So indeed it would be right to say that a man raised Lazarus from the dead and commanded the wind and waves, that God was born that first Christmas day and that, on Good Friday, God died.

The Council of Ephesus, once confirmed by the Pope, became the third ecumenical council of the Catholic Church, and its teaching in this matter is dogma, truth revealed by God which all are bound to accept.

So why does the Roman liturgy celebrate the Octave of Christmas as the Feast of Mary the Mother of God?  Because this paradoxical phrase strikes at the very heart of Christmas.  The songs we sing and the cards we write extol the babe of Bethlehem as Emmanuel, God-with-us.  He is so with us that after Gabriel’s visit to the Virgin of Nazareth, the Divine Word can never again be divided from our humanity.  What God has joined, let no man separate.

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10 responses to “Celebrating the Mother of God”

  1. Pete Avatar
    Pete

    The book of John Ch.1 tells us Christ was there at the beginning, for he is the alpha and omega. Prior to being born by Mary is it reasonable to assume Christ was both a man and the Son of God then too? If so, in becoming an unborn child is it correct to think that he allowed Himself to be transformed temporarily into a child to develop back into the man that He already was?

    Also, if we call Mary the Mother of God, I think we need to be careful not to imply she bestowed the grace of God on her Son. Since Christ is inseparable from the Holy Spirit and the Father, Mary was a pure vessel for the Christ child but she did not bestow any grace which is a gift from God and He alone. Therefore the divine nature of Christ was from God (as He is God) and He alone. Mary is the Mother of Christ and He is God in the Holy Trinity and in that sense she is the Mother of God. I think it is easier to understand she deserves this title by virtue of the mystery of the Holy Trinity.

    Do you see any flaw in my thinking?

  2. noelfitz Avatar
    noelfitz

    Great article.

    In a few minutes 2015 will end and 2016 begin.

    So I wish you all a great and blessed new year.

    I read here ‘“Theotokos” meaning “God-bearer” or mother of God.’ But with surrogates now the bearer of a child and its mother may be different. ‘Mother of God’ causes problems as it is difficult to see how Mary, a creature, can give live to God, a creator. What does being a mother mean?

  3. prolifemama Avatar
    prolifemama

    Hello, Pete! I have one comment, regarding Gabriel’s greeting to Mary: “Hail, full of grace…”

    Mary, being full of grace, had no room for anything else. And since God does not take back His gifts to us, Mary must have remained filled with grace throughout her life. She did indeed need her Savior, as do we all, but I’ve heard it explained this way:

    Jesus saves us from our sin, as someone would fish another out of a mud puddle into which s/he has fallen. Jesus, in His infinite love for his mother and her Yes to His Father, saved Mary from sin, too, by spreading out His arms and preventing her from falling into that mud puddle in the first place.

    Mary, therefore, is how we all were meant to be, full of God’s grace from the instant of our existence. Full of grace, she was enabled by God to bestow a perfected humanity upon her Son, Jesus. Her grace was indeed from God, and He gave it to her as a free gift, so that she in turn could give it to her son, the Son of God.

    Thoughts?

  4. Pete Avatar
    Pete

    I think your view on Mary is beautiful. The only thing I might change is your last sentence. I think Mary did receive the full grace of God and she was without sin. Her love for God was as perfect as it could be in a human person, and this is the gift she gave her Son, her love perfected in both the human and divine sense. Her Son did not receive grace from Mary, that can only come from the Father, Son or Holy Spirit. Maybe we could agree God’s grace working through Mary gave Jesus a Mother set apart from all others, a new Eve, and through her willingness to do God’s will we received our Savior made incarnate.

    Appreciate any feedback.

  5. Pete Avatar
    Pete

    At a minimum Mary bore Jesus and provided him life giving nutrients in the womb. But as a Catholic I believe we go one step further and believe biologically she contributed to the creation of Christ in his human form. Because of her holiness and love for God she was the perfect vessel for Christ.

  6. Adam in Christ Avatar

    All of this attention towards a chosen, yet fallible human vessel honestly sounds like idolatry.

    But here’s something else that I question: If Mary is so celebrated as the mother (lower-case) of Jesus Christ, why isn’t Eve honored moreso? After all, she was so named by Adam due to her being the “mother of all living”.

    Genesis 3:20
    …And Adam called his wife’s name Eve; because she was the mother of all living…

  7. noelfitz Avatar
    noelfitz

    Pete,
    thank you for your reply.
    You claim Mary is the mother of Christ, this is what Nestorius claimed.
    Catholics believe she is the mother of God, but theotokos does not mean this.
    Also as a creature she was not worthy to be the mother of her creator.

  8. prolifemama Avatar
    prolifemama

    Sure. Thanks, Pete! I’ll check with my theologian friends and get back to you.

    In the meantime, some comments on your comment 🙂

    Mary certainly did love God and Christ as perfectly as a human being could, by saying “yes” to everything asked of her.

    The grace Mary gave to Jesus was indeed from God, as is every good thing. In Mary’s case, it perfected her by protecting her from original sin, thus enabling Mary to give Christ a perfect human nature. Mary had the choice to refuse God’s gift, but the gift of being Full of Grace meant that Jesus would inherit a perfect human nature from His human mother, Mary.

  9. prolifemama Avatar
    prolifemama

    @noelfitz – The teaching that Mary is the Mother of God, is less about Mary, and more about Jesus. Jesus isn’t simply God in human form – Jesus IS fully human and at the same time, fully Divine. We don’t have to understand it intellectually or be able to fully explain it, we need only to believe it and trust in God for the rest. Mary is truly the Mother of God, because Jesus is truly God and truly Man. This truth does not mean that its adherents believe Mary to be the Creator, or the mother of God the Father. She is Jesus’ mother, and because Jesus is God, just as are God the Father and God the Holy Spirit, she is correctly called the Mother of God the Son – Jesus Christ.

    Mary was made worthy, by her Creator, to be the mother of His Son, Jesus, by being saved from Original Sin BEFORE she was conceived. Did she still need a Savior? Yes. I’ve heard it explained this way: When Jesus saves us from our sinful nature, it is as if He is pulling us out of a mud puddle into which we have fallen. For Mary, it is different. When Jesus saved Mary from a sinful human nature, it is as if He is stretching his arms across that mud puddle so as to prevent Mary from falling into it in the first place. She does indeed need Him to do this, as He is the only One Who can save anyone from sin.

    The Archangel Gabriel spoke to Mary in these words: “Hail, full of grace.” Since he acknowledges Mary as being filled with grace, and because God never takes back His gifts, we can believe that Mary remained filled with grace her whole life. Jesus received His humanity from Mary. Because her humanity was a perfected humanity, Mary was indeed worthy to be Jesus’ mother.

    The term “Theotokos” means God-Bearer. Mary bore Jesus – God the Son – in her womb, gave birth to Him, nursed Him, and raised Him to be a faithful Jewish man.

    Why did God prepare Mary to be without stain of original sin? Yes, to carry Jesus His Son within her and be His Mother. But to also have Jesus become one of us – He is truly our Brother, in spirit and in flesh – in all things but giving in to sin.

    Mary was not worthy except for God’s will. With great humility He allowed His Son to be born from the human race. With great humility, Mary accepted this task from her Heavenly Father, giving Him all the glory, and all of her trust in His Will for her.

    This is why we revere Mary, and believe she is our mother as well as Jesus’. How else could we call Him our brother, unless we all have the same mother? Jesus gave Mary into John’s keeping at the foot of His Cross. He gave John, as well as all of us, into her keeping at the same time.

    Catholics revere Mary for her trust in God, and love her as our Mother, the Mother of our Savior and Brother.

  10. prolifemama Avatar
    prolifemama

    To poster “Adam in Christ” – in response to your comments below:

    “All of this attention towards a chosen, yet fallible human vessel honestly sounds like idolatry.
    But here’s something else that I question: If Mary is so celebrated as the mother (lower-case) of Jesus Christ, why isn’t Eve honored moreso? After all, she was so named by Adam due to her being the “mother of all living”.

    Genesis 3:20
    …And Adam called his wife’s name Eve; because she was the mother of all living…”

    My reply:

    @Adam in Christ – Eve is not honored as Mary is, because Eve disobeyed God.
    Mary obeyed God, and accepted His Will for her.

    BTW – No human being is merely a “vessel.” We are created by God as a combination of body and soul – this is our natural state. That is why both ghosts and corpses frighten us. We intuitively know that neither is how we are meant to be.

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