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Can’t Sing? Sing Anyway!

A colleague in her sixties shared the story of being a young girl and being told by her music teacher to simply "mouth the words." Scarred by the experience, the woman still hesitates to sing today. Many of us can relate to that experience. Judging by the thousands of contestants who try out for American Idol each year, most of us are not blessed with stellar singing voices. While young children are likely to sing with joy and abandon regardless of what they sound like, teens and adults are much more likely to limit their musical expression to the shower, singing "Happy Birthday" in a large group, or accompanying the radio in the car if driving alone.

An exception to this unspoken rule of "no singing allowed" should be in Church. God gave us our voices and we should be willing to offer them up to God in liturgical song as a means of prayer. According to the Catechism of the Catholic Church, "song and music fulfill their function as signs in a manner all the more significant when they are ‘more closely connected . . . with the liturgical action,' according to three principal criteria: beauty expressive of prayer, the unanimous participation of the assembly at the designated moments, and the solemn character of the celebration." (CCC 1157) "Unanimous participation" — that means all of us.

I sometimes feel badly for the music ministers. Our parish is blessed with several wonderful singers and musicians, both paid and volunteer, who lead the congregation in song. They have beautiful voices and are a pleasure to listen to, but if they judge their success by how many people sing along, they are bound to be discouraged. Our job, as part of the congregation, is not to listen to them, but to join along. No one sounds bad in Church, especially if everyone is singing. There is something supremely beautiful about all those voices raised in song and prayer. Young and old, rich and poor, black and white, our voices all come together in joyful praise.

 Part of the intent of the liturgical reforms of Vatican II was to get the congregation more involved in the liturgy. Mass is not meant to be a spectator sport. Yes, it still counts if one attends mass but doesn't speak the prayers aloud or engage in song. Somehow, though, it seems a little like attending a banquet with your closest friends and not engaging in any conversation.

I do understand the reticence. Many of us have had humiliating experiences of singing badly in public. Like my colleague, we may have been told flat out to stop singing, that we can't sing and shouldn't torture other people by our efforts. Church is different, though. We are there to worship God, not to worry about the opinion of our neighbor. God wants to hear our voices lifted in song. Can't sing? Sing anyway. Be part of the wonderful gift of liturgical song.

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16 responses to “Can’t Sing? Sing Anyway!”

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    I can understand how the young girl was scarred by being told to just mouth the words.  When I was young I played baseball.  I wasn't the best hitter in the world.  One day the manager called me aside and told me never to swing at a pitch if there were men on base – just take the pitches. I protested that I would always strike out that way. Yes – he said – but if you swing you will probably hit into a double play. I was crushed.  I have always wanted to blame him for ruining my baseball career, but I have to admit that I couldn't throw or run very well either.

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    You know my mother always says "God gave me this voice so He is just going to have to hear it."  She always sings in church and eventhough her voice is not perfect to our ears I know that it is perfect to God's.

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    I love this old saying– I think is is from Norway: "How silent the woods would be, if only the best birds sang!"

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    This is going to take a long time to change. Generally we do not a have a tradition of public singing. Specifically we do not have a tradition of good catholic music; "Morning has Broken" by Cat Stevens notwithstanding.

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    Wonderfun comments. I would add, "(S)He who sings prays twice. I can't believe that God only listens to the prayers of those with pleasant voices.

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    It makes such a difference when DADS sing. All of our boys sing (to some degree) and are not afraid to because my husband does.

    Having the songs pitched a little lower might encourage more male voices, as well.

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    I'm a dad and I sing.

    … when the songs aren't inane.

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    You mean like this: "Here I am, standing right beside you…"

    My husband wants to puke every time he hears it — and he can sing very well!

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    Some of the most uninspired and musically untalented people wrote church music. That's where the big problem lies. Lead me Lord, lead me Lord by the light of truth…. is one of the better ones.

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    Well, let's start prayerfully promoting better music. If we or our children are in the choirs, we can probably have some input into the music. If the hymnals are worn out, offer to head up a fundraising drive to replace them–and find good ones. Find some good local musicians and put together a concert at the parish–maybe a benefit to help out a parish or local need, and feature some beautiful Mass music, so those who may not have heard it before will get a taste of it, and maybe develop a hunger.

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    I never hesitate to sing, and to sing loudly.  When we are visiting or joining a new parish it isn't uncommon for the person in front of us to turn around and comment to my husband that he sings beautifully.  Then to turn, ever so slightly, and glare at me.  Oh, well!  Our oldest daughter, when I was pregnant with her, kicked when I sang at mass, too. But it hasn't held me back.  I hope to encourage those others who aren't naturally talented to not hold back either.  And, as a good friend once said of her own lack of musical talent, "God gave me this voice.  I'm just giving it back to Him!"  (accomanied by a smile, of course)

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    Gather us in, the vague and confused,
    Gather us in, the this and the that.
    Call to us after the homily and we shall awaken,
    We shall arise at the sound of our name.

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    Look if we can sing Charles Wesley at Christmas ("Hark! the Herald Angels Sing") and Easter ("Christ the Lord Is Risen Today") why can't we sing his stuff all year? I mean really would this hurt us?

    And can it be that I should gain
    An interest in the Savior's blood!
    Died he for me? who caused his pain!
    For me? who him to death pursued?
    Amazing love! How can it be
    That thou, my God, shouldst die for me?
    Amazing love! How can it be
    That thou, my God, shouldst die for me?

    'Tis mystery all: th' Immortal dies!
    Who can explore his strange design?
    In vain the firstborn seraph tries
    To sound the depths of love divine.
    'Tis mercy all! Let earth adore;
    Let angel minds inquire no more.
    'Tis mercy all! Let earth adore;
    Let angel minds inquire no more.

    He left his Father's throne above
    So free, so infinite his grace!
    Emptied himself of all but love,
    And bled for Adam's helpless race.
    'Tis mercy all, immense and free,
    For O my God, it found out me!
    'Tis mercy all, immense and free,
    For O my God, it found out me!

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    Thanks, Mary.  There is actually some very good Protestant music around.  Unfortunately, there is also some very idiotic, unbiblical Catholic music ("Gather us in, the proud and the haughty…" being one I absolutely refuse to sing!).

    It happens that God gave me a good voice and a good "ear".  It never fails to stand my hair on end to hear someone who can't carry a tune.  However, when they recognize their "lack" and apologize, I always reply, "We are told to 'make a joyful noise': God never said it had to be 'on key'"!

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    I think we have good catholic music, centuries old treasure! The gregorian chant is he way the church (latin rite) sings. It should be the norm, says Vatican II (in sacrosanctum concilium, #116 cf.sacramentum caritatis #42).

    There are so to say three books the church uses for the liturgy. The Missale (for the priest),The Graduale (for the choir) and the Kyriale (for the people). These are the traditional books used for the mass. They are in latin. As a musician, I have to say that I value the most those masses where the music is beautifully done. It can mean, that not everybody sings all the time.  
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    Dearest Plisto: I'm sorry I wasn't more clear.  My fault.  I meant to criticize the new Catholic music, not the older hymns and especially not the Gregorian Chant (which I love).  The so-called Catholic music written around and since Vatican II makes me feel like………….

    (I'll leave it to your imagination.  Wink

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