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A Mess at Mass

I recently received a couple of apologetics inquiries that may not seem related on the surface, but that I believe are suggestive of a common problematic approach to the Mass. The first was about the propriety of Christmas pageants in church. The inquirer was very obviously put off by the common custom of small children acting out the Christmas story for the benefit of parishioners, and wanted to know if this kind of spectacle was appropriate in a church dedicated to the worship of God:

Could you please inform me as to weather or not plays should be performed in church on Christmas Eve or Christmas Day? That is, Christmas pageants by children. Jesus said, “My house is a house of prayer.” Why then should we have plays in his Church? Where is the reverence for our Lord? Cutesy, warm-and-fuzzy feelings are not what it is about.

I am not a fan of Christmas pageants that take place during the liturgy itself. In my opinion, a Christmas pageant should either precede or follow the liturgy. Aside from that single caveat, I do not believe there is a problem with parish Christmas pageants per se.

As for the charge that Christmas pageants risk turning our houses of prayer into cutesy, warm-fuzzy preschool sing-alongs, perhaps we should remember that the modern custom of erecting Nativity scenes in church at Christmas came from St. Francis of Assisi, who once re-created the Christmas story with live actors and animals.

St. Francis was not trying to create a Hallmark moment, but to assist Christians in better entering into meditation on the meaning of Christmas. While it’s true that many people tend to treat Christmas pageants as a photo-op, they could also be used as an opportunity to think about what it means that God chose to enter human history as a baby, and that the redemption of the world began with a birth announcement.

My second inquirer was someone who was responding to a previous inquirer’s concern that there was way too much interaction with fellow congregants during the Mass being commanded by parishes in his area:

I hope people are aware that you not obligated to exchange the sign of peace with others if you are not comfortable with doing that. I normally bow my head, close my eyes, and offer an Our Father in silence. I do not hold hands during the Our Father since it is not an action that is contained in the rubrics for the Mass and, again, I am not comfortable with it.

Many of these actions have gotten out of hand, however, as the poster commented. I too prefer to keep it between “me and God,” where I can put myself in the presence of God. The Latin Mass does that for me. Just my two cents on the subject.

While this person undoubtedly means well, and is obviously concerned about the proper celebration of the liturgy (which is a good thing in itself), I think there are a number of problematic issues bundled together here. Mass is not simply about “me and God,” and we do not put ourselves into the presence of God. God draws us to himself, and he usually does so through the mystical body of Christ—in other words, through his Church. That means that there is a communal aspect to the Mass.

That communal aspect to the Mass may be over-emphasized in some parishes, and congregants do have the latitude to adjust their participation accordingly. For example, it is perfectly fine to smile and nod during the sign of peace instead of handshaking and backslapping. But completely ignoring fellow congregants altogether can not only be construed to be rude, but may also be theologically problematic (cf. Matt. 5:23-24, 1 John 4:20-21).

A sacramentary is not a cookbook

So, what is the common bond between these two questions? I believe the problem is that many Catholics seem to think that the eucharistic liturgy must be presented perfectly, as if it was a Broadway show, or even as if it was a military drill. Anything that appears to deviate in the slightest from the rubrics of the Mass is considered schmaltzy at best, and sinful at worst.

The common cry becomes “Why can’t priests just say the black and do the red?” (Meaning, pray the prayers of the liturgy printed in the black type, and perform the actions of the liturgy printed in red type.) But the sacramentary is not and was never intended to be a cookbook.

Think about it. With a cookbook, you look up a recipe, assemble your ingredients, prepare them according to the instructions, and an hour or so later, you may have an edible meal. If you do not follow the instructions given, then more likely than not your meal will be inedible.

The Mass, on the other hand, is an act of public worship. The sacramentary prescribes the prayers and actions of the liturgy and gives the order in which they are to occur. But the intent is not to create a personal masterpiece. The intent is to allow a community to enter into the common worship of the universal Church. Deviation from the rubrics is not so much forbidden because the Mass might “break”; it is forbidden because significant deviation from the prescribed ritual means that the community is not celebrating the Mass. They may be worshipping God, but they are not worshipping God along with the universal Church.

So, the rubrics are indeed important and serve a necessary purpose. But they are not an end in themselves. The rubrics of the Mass were made for man, not man for the rubrics.

The dangers of rubricism

What can happen when the rubrics of the Mass are turned into an end, instead of as a means to worship? Here are a few of the dangers:

Judgmentalism. When we attend Mass and see that others are not acting according to our expectations, there is a danger that we can judge them unfairly. For example, if the parish decides to host a Christmas pageant (whether or not a eucharistic liturgy will also occur as part of the planned program) there is a temptation to dismiss it as “cutesy” and “warm and fuzzy.” That, in turn, can blind us to centuries-old precedents that were not created merely out of sentiment but for serious religious purposes.

Isolation. Then there is the problem of assuming that any interaction among congregants during the Mass is to be frowned upon, and assuming instead that congregants should not acknowledge each other at all during public worship. Taken to an extreme, this creates a bunch of individuals who happen to be in the same building at the same time, rather than a community worshipping God together as one body in Christ. In fact, it is a common motif to complaints about the liturgy that there is altogether too much congregational involvement in the liturgy, which brings us to the next danger.

Passivity. In reaction to what can sometimes be an over-emphasis on communal participation in the Mass, some Catholics claim that “active participation” has been misunderstood. Rather than considering “active participation” to mean laity involved in speaking or singing the prayers of the liturgy, in union with the priest, we are told that “active participation” instead means to be silent and unite ourselves with the liturgy “in our hearts.” Sometimes this admonition is glazed with pious assurances that this is how the Virgin Mary prayed at the foot of the cross.

While there is certainly nothing wrong with praying silently at Mass, and while there is much to commend interior offerings of oneself in union with Christ on the cross, the fact is that the Church provides for the laity to do more during Mass. This is yet another facet of Catholic life that is not either/or but both/and. We can pray silently and give the congregational responses the Church asks us to give. We can offer ourselves in union with Christ on the cross, and serve at Mass as a lector or extraordinary minister of holy Communion.

Making a mess

At World Youth Day last year, Pope Francis is reported to have told a group of pilgrims that he wanted them to go out and make a mess:

I want to tell you something. What is it that I expect as a consequence of World Youth Day? I want a mess. We knew that in Rio [de Janeiro] there would be great disorder, but I want trouble in the dioceses! . . . I want to see the Church get closer to the people. I want to get rid of clericalism, the mundane, this closing ourselves off within ourselves, in our parishes, schools, or structures. Because these need to get out!

The Pope did not exactly define what kind of mess he wanted to see, but I have been thinking about his words lately when looking around at Mass at the parish I attend.

A typical American Catholic parish

The parish I attend is probably pretty standard for a parish church in the United States that was renovated sometime in the late-’70s or early-’80s. The architecture is not aesthetically appealing—which is a polite way of saying that it is ugly, no question. The church looks like a concrete rotunda from the outside. From the parking lot, the building looks like it would be better suited to a public library than to a place for public worship.

On the inside though, effort has been made to make the sanctuary look more traditional. For example, statues are scattered throughout, and in such a way that parishioners can pause to pray before them on the way into or out of Mass. This past Sunday I was both touched and somewhat amused to see that the statue of Our Lady of Grace had dollar bills tucked between her fingers, undoubtedly symbolizing someone’s prayer for financial solvency.

The pastor has been busy with making the altar area look a bit more traditional as well. The free-floating crucifix was moved so that it was positioned directly over the altar. Lighting was added to make it easier for both those on the altar area to serve and for congregants to observe. It is still no one’s idea of a truly traditional Catholic altar configuration, but the results are both attractive and more in line with the rubrics for sacred space. And yet there are still more than a dozen EMHCs who troop up into the altar area to collect Communion for distribution during each Sunday Mass.

I have also noticed interesting habits of parishioners during the liturgy. More women are wearing veils and other headcoverings—with slacks, even sometimes with jeans, and while serving as lectors or EMHCs. Some parishioners kneel down to receive the host—and then receive the precious blood from the chalice while standing. There is a lot of chatter that goes on after Mass, but some congregants will gather for a rosary in front of the statue of the Virgin and others will make “pilgrimages” from statue to statue to visit with their favorite saints.

In other words, there is genuine concern for a proper celebration of the Mass, there is desire to return to ancient customs of the faith—but without any expectation that all must conform to an ironclad vision of how everyone “must” conduct themselves at Mass. There is a certain amount of “mess,” with old customs and modern practices side by side, but I can honestly say that I have not seen a single incidence of true irreverence.

Churches are not museums

In his book, God Is Near Us, Pope-Emeritus Benedict XVI made this observation about the danger of turning the liturgy into an artifact, instead of a living expression of the worship of God by the faithful:

There is a great danger today of our churches becoming museums and suffering the fate of museums: If they are not locked, they are looted. They are no longer alive. The measure of life in the Church, the measure of her inner openness, will be seen in that she will be able to keep her doors open, because she is a praying Church. I ask you therefore from the heart, let us make a new start at this. Let us again recollect that the Church is always alive, that within her evermore the Lord comes to meet us (p. 90).

Comments

21 responses to “A Mess at Mass”

  1. SnowBunting Avatar
    SnowBunting

    The more I love Jesus the more I find I really love our Holy Father, Pope Francis. His love for human beings with all of their messes and faults, his openness, his fearlessness . God love him!

  2. Joseph Lukowski Avatar
    Joseph Lukowski

    I find a respect for the rubric will avoid any abuse that comes into play. There is a reason for the rubric. Even Jesus followed the rubric that were part of the worship services he participated in. Even the Bible had directions form God as to How worship is to happen.

  3. mary Avatar
    mary

    I don’t want to shake hands either as I think it is forced upon me. I also feel it is unsanitary as some people cough in their hands etc. Therefore I refuse and will nod my head and wish the peace.

  4. Mary Sill Avatar
    Mary Sill

    A nod seems good to me–also, the Council never intended that we would wave to everyone beyond those next to us, as is so commonly done.

  5. Mary Sill Avatar
    Mary Sill

    A good and balanced article on the whole, IMO. I see the pope’s “create a mess” remark, however, as intending chaos and confusion along with so much of what he says. God calls us out of chaos and mess into Himself, not into it.

  6. MountainAngel Avatar
    MountainAngel

    The Acknowledgement of those around us and shaking hands should be done at the opening of the Mass, not right before the Blessed Sacrament is to be received…..At one of the most important moments of the Mass, it causes distraction…..This never ceases to make me uneasy…..

  7. Joe Avatar
    Joe

    With all due respect, whoever wrote this misses entirely the point of Holy Mass. They seemed to have noticed everything but the One Thing which matters the most.

    Christ Our Lord, Maker of the universe and of you and me, becomes Physically Present on the altar.

    Noticing this changes very substantially how we view “performances” [in front of Him], back slaps and high fives [in His Presence] — in short the seriousness with which we view and approach this Supernatural event.

    This article gets lost in the mundane and is humanistic. Kumbaya is fine for the campfire, but for the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit…?

  8. Sixtus Maximus Avatar
    Sixtus Maximus

    The Rubrics are necessary to keep the continuity of the Holy Mass. The virtue of obedience to the Rubrics is necessary if the Mass strays from the Rubrics the Holy Mass ceases to be Catholic and the at the Consecration of the bread and wine does not become the Eucharist. It’s not a sin to be judgmental. There seems to be a myth that as a Catholic it’s bad to be Judgmental. Judging is an important element of not being in occasion of sin. Such as a bar with obscene conduct and bad language. We have to make a judgment. We as Catholics are taught to avoid these places if not we can fall into Mortal Sin. The Holy Mass is the same. If the Mass goes outside the Rubrics constituted by the Holy Church as a Catholic you must report it to the Bishop and if necessary the Vatican itself. The Holy Mass is not to be an entertainment stage. The entertainment stage is in the auditorium or hall not in front of the Altar in a Catholic Church. As Catholics the Church teaches us not to sin and pray unceasingly that includes to receive the Eucharist with any Mortal Sins and s repenting humility not to receive Christ in the Eucharist in vain anytime.

  9. Cassie Wonderalke Avatar
    Cassie Wonderalke

    We do both at our parish. Right before mass starts we are told to glad hand and meet and greet our neighbor. Then we do the same nonsense during the glad hand shake of “peas.” On top of all this we have families holding hands during the Our Father and then raising them high up in the air for the “Thine is the Kingdom, the Power and the Glory.” The choir was told to perform more up beat music to pep up the congregation. Next we’ll be skipping our way up to the altar with flowers being thrown about as a family brings up the gifts. Why does this have to happen? It doesn’t. I know we are supposed to be community which is fine after mass. But during the worship of our Lord and Savior I need peace and quiet. I’ve started going to other nearby parishes and even found a Latin Mass. I’ve started veiling and now I need to buy a skirt as I see the Latin Massers (women) wearing them. Sigh.

  10. wonder Avatar
    wonder

    Interesting comments. TLM is a gift. We worship Him. Our communion rail was re-installed a few years ago and praise God. It seems to me that the Post V2 church has in many cases turned into a meet and greet for neighbor. Mans love for recognition has trumped the love and reverence due to God. After mass we go and serve our neighbor with greater love and true intent. Not to be praised by our congregation, rather quietly and almost hidden from sight.

  11. bluesuede Avatar
    bluesuede

    When the Divinely given duties and honors of the priesthood get dispersed and separated from the priest and go to the laity and to the congregation instead, it makes the worship we owe to God alone through the priest alone, with us as participants, into an act of entertainment for our pleasure ( it’s as though the worst thing at Mass is that it would be boring to someone), then we get the mess that we see our beloved Mass in today.

  12. bluesuede Avatar
    bluesuede

    Well said.

  13. Bonita Lay Avatar
    Bonita Lay

    Check this one out: A few months ago, the woman’s corporate community church group was saying the Rosary before Mass…and the people were talking ABOVE them…then on the right side of the altar was a statue of St. Gennero..people pinning dollar bills on it.. I couldn’t take it. I left.. Then 3 weeks ago, the chattering continuing 2 pews behind me..people to my right were trying to pray and collect themselves for Mass. Then 2 people behind me started talking. I politely and charitably turned, and said” Please, people are trying to get ready for Mass” This is what was said ” Who do you think you are GAWD?.. You got to hell” (said by seniors not kids). I just returned with a “God Bless You” then the husband started in.. Perhaps she had dementia or both…but she refused to respond to the sign of peace and “reverently” went to Holy Communion. Okay, perhaps people haven’t seen each other in awhile, but the need to talk about surgeries, grandchildren chicken recipes etc is so RUDE and disrespectful to who is residing in that tabernacle.Then, perhaps, people haven’t had the opportunity to pray and visit with God in a week either. Pastor won’t do a thing about it either. INSTRUCTING THE IGNORANT…is that being jugemental??

  14. kelso Avatar
    kelso

    Mary Sill, you are so right. BTW, the Council issued nothing on sharing a “sign of peace,” nor on Communion in the hand. These are abuses the came later from the liberal loons with “Hanibal” Anabile Bugnini of the Liturgical Commission.. Even facing the people and free standing altars were not from Vatican II. And certainly not “extraordinary ministers.”

  15. Riki Avatar
    Riki

    20+ years ago I was trying out several churches in Phoenix, Scottsdale et al. to find a church to go to Mass in all serenity without the handshaking, kissing, laughing, talking during Mass, after Communion, and after the Mass. Didn’t find a single one. I called the Diocese, was still under O’Brien, for information and asked where to find a more traditional style Holy Mass.
    The answer I got was : “You go to church to SOCIALIZE !!!” My answer was : “If I want to socialize
    I’ll go to a bar. ” They hang up on me. And nowadays it’s even worse : After a nightshift I went to a Church in Scottsdale,AZ, I knelt down on the floor to receive Holy Communion (while a guy was playing the guitar, I hate that) but the priest turned around and wanted to leave but I stayed there kneeling and so he turned around and came back. He had to give me Communion on the tongue, I kissed the floor and returned to my bench. Riki

  16. Tziggy Avatar
    Tziggy

    I agree, reverence seems to be waning.
    I’d like parishioners to keep conversations out of the sanctuary
    I love communion rails and pattens
    I’m not a big fan of hand shaking or hand holding
    And I like to see reverence in the way people dress

    That being said:
    I’ve read through these comments and I see a lot of “I” and “me”. I see a fair amount of pride and (for lack of a better word) Pharisaical thinking.

    It occurred to me long ago when I allowed distractions to affect my worship I was focusing on what “I” liked or wanted and not Christ. Yes, we need to make sure Holy Mass remains “Holy”. But remember our good Lord is in charge. Those around you are loved by Christ and reverent or not, they are at mass. Your distractions and agitations during mass may be telling you more about yourself than that which distracts you.

  17. FatherJoel Avatar
    FatherJoel

    Clearly this unnamed author means well – and at first I wanted to believe that this article was a reprint of something at least three years old (prior to the implementation of the new translations, seeing he/she makes consistent use of the word “Sacramentary” in describing the book within which the ritual is printed….) However, the reference to Pope Francis’ “make a mess” exhortation clearly shows that this article is since our change to the third edition of the Roman Missal.

    That being said, there are a couple of issues with the author’s perspective.
    1- while the “cookbook” analogy takes into account the the Church’s liturgy is not about uniformity, it truly is more than simply “communal worship.” It is the means, through signs and symbols, “through which the work of our redemption is accomplished.” (See Sacrosanctum Concilium #2.) Furthermore, the twofold “goal” of liturgy is the glorification of God and the sanctification of the people. Thus, the reduction of liturgy by this author to “communal worship” reduces the liturgy to be merely about “our doing onto God,” voiding it of Christ’s work on our behalf (redemption.)
    2- The commentary on Christmas pageants in reference to St. Francis is ill-advised: As it is unlikely that St. Francis carried out this act within the context of the liturgy, but as a separate act.
    While I appreciate the author’s attempt to shy away from extremes of rubricism and the like, he or she unfortunately does not recognize that a liturgy that is offerred with sincere attentiveness to “saying the black and doing the red” is not simply as a matter of form or to be “holier than thou;” – it is so that the clergy and any others who minister in a formal way will get out of the way of the encounter with Christ that is intended to be offered to all within the liturgy, not making it about themselves or so-called “pastoral good of the people;” but in allowing the inherent beauty of the liturgy to speak to each person as it can (and will, when we humbly follow what Holy Mother Church has guarded and handed down to us.)

  18. bluesuede Avatar
    bluesuede

    Well said.

  19. bluesuede Avatar
    bluesuede

    It is the pastor’s responsibility.
    We come together to pray as one body of the faithful before the Holy Sacrifice. Jesus so desired that we would be one and love each other, at least by being referent in His house and respectful to each other.
    I would ask the pastor to address this abuse. If he won’t do anything about it, then write the Bishop. If he won’t do anything, I’d try another Church and wipe the dust of the one from your feet and move on.

  20. Sixtus Maximus Avatar
    Sixtus Maximus

    Continue to be judgmental. It’s ok and it will save your soul in the end. We as Catholics can not judge if someone goes to hell or not, we can’t even Judge if anyone goes to Heaven not even the Catholic Church can, that’s for only God to do. We can judge what is Holy and what is evil that is important about living a good Catholic life. The devil will tell you not to judge so you can can fall into Mortal Sin and encourage you to receive the Holy Eucharist in the State of Mortal Sin to cause you to fall into Sacrilege on top of that. Please do not listen to these heretic Bishops and Priests who are not faithful to and have a hatred for the teachings of the Catholic Church and want to destroy souls. Pray unceasingly and advise your liberal Priest and Bishop to start praying unceasingly because they are obviously in love with the world.

  21. SnowBunting Avatar
    SnowBunting

    One very simple way to avoid some of these issues is to remain kneeling in prayer. I do it all of the time. So far, no one has tried to hold my hand while kneeling. I also remain kneeling until I get up to go and receive Holy Communion. The Parish I attend does so many hard things- hard for me- I am forced to listen to jokes, at least 3 or more during the Homily at every Mass. I offer the misery it causes me up for the Conversion of the Priest. I offer everything up for God’s Will to be done. I can’t attend another Parish or I would, they are all too far away. I live in the sticks. So being as it is, I just accept this cross and do the best I can with it. We live in a terribly messy world. Offering up our pain in union with the suffering of Jesus is sometimes the only option we have..but thank God it’s a very powerful one.

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